A great philosopher once wrote/said: "...All the time i be, hoping my true muthafuckas know, this be the REALEST SHIT i ever wrote. Against all odds, up in the studio gettin' bloooooown, to the truest shit i ever spoke..."
-Tupac Shakur
Ok, That was a quasi-dramatic intro, but the first part of that hook encapsulates the point of this post VERY POIGNANTLY. Shall we proceed?
My status on this site reads: "Newbie," but a newbie i am not. I decided to join the local board here today, because i want to filter out and meet some guys that really want to go out and get pussy, but may feel like they would be more apt to stay committed to hitting it up consistently, if they had another competent fella with them to joke around with and downplay the whole approach anxiety and 'blowout' shit.
So I will just be candid.
If you are able to say "YES" to 4 or more of these, then continue to read this post. This may be a call to you. If you can NOT in your heart of hearts say "YES" to 4 or more of these, then please, do not bother replying. You can read if you want:
1 - Have you fucked 3 or more BRAND NEW GIRLS for 2010 already?
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2- Would you say that you tend to use a direct, or 'honest' style of game when you meet and interact with women? (Meaning:
You let her know why it is you are talking to her; maybe you might compliment her or flirt explicitly...but bottomline is, you
are not using indirect, hours-upon-hours of routine stacks to try to get girls)
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3 - When you go out to play the game, do you want to get pussy? (You would be surprised how many guys go out because
they want to get 'GOOD' or because they want to stay disciplined. Pussy isn't even on the LIST!)
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4 - Is your life setup in such a way that you can go out consistently every week? Whatever days that end up being is
irrelevant. The fact that you can Make It Happen every week, for whatever period of time you decide, is the point.
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5 - Are you a generally socially calibrated guy? In other words, at any given point in life - no matter what state you've lived in,
no matter what job you've worked at, no matter what school you may have attended....have people consistently,
throughout all of those scenarios, consistently told you that: "You are a kool!"? THIS IS IMPORTANT!
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6 - Have you been laid by NEW pussy within the last 3 months?
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7 - Last Question: If Jimmy cracks corn and nobody cares....why does he keep on doing it???
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Look, Ive been in the game for a few years. Im at the point where i feel like playtime in the sandbox is over and it's really time to ACTUALLY get pussy regularly. I feel like there is NOBODY in my immediate environment who has the same goal as me: - To refine my swagger to the point where i am pulling and fucking brand new hottie(s) on a consistent, (monthly/weekly?) basis.- Presently I get laid Inconsistently by new girls, and consistently by old flings that I keep on a loose leech. I am literally exasperated because i tend to meet guys who TALK a good rap. They say how they want to fuck more, but they just sit around at home week in and week out, and expect naked girlscouts to knock on their door and sell them cookies. I also meet guys who tell stories about girls they've fucked YEARS ago...and they still get high on thinking about OLD glory days.
Do i live in the twilight zone?!?
Ive met guys who give copious amounts of advice to other people that sounds official. But when you look at what they do in field, you think to yourself: "Wtf?! Dont ever give/post advice to anyone again until you actually get a decent skillset, or at the VERY LEAST, do what it is that you have been talking about." Some people just like to talk. Keyboard rhetoric and the subsequent replies that particular posts may get is all a nirvana that one experiences from a disease called mental masturbation. It's curable though!!
I will demonstrate ANYTHING to ANYONE in the field, in ANY city...Phx, Tempe, Chandler, West side, Scottsdale, hell...out of town. I approach consistently and i swing for the fence with every pitch that i step up to at bat. The days of 'running out of things to say' dont exist for me anymore. The questions about HOW to physically escalate - i dont have them anymore. I literally go for a HARD or soft close with every girl that i approach that i am attracted to (Hard close = same night pull. Soft close = the consolation prize...a phone number, if logistics do not permit a SNL).
If you meet up with me, then after we exchange greets and smalltalk, i want you to demonstrate what it is that you can do in a bar or a nightclub. I will gladly do the same. Every set does not have to go Marvelous. Shit, i dont even care or expect that you or i will win every time. My personal philosophy though is whether i reach my goal (a snl that night, a new contact in my phonebook for a possible meet up, etc) or not on any given night, i feel exhilarated that i went all out. Im glad that i put in the EFFORT to get a snl, whether i did or not. I cant control the outside variable completely (cockblocks, her work sched, the driving situation, new territory that has me all inside my head..), but i CAN control myself and the effort that i put in to make shit happen.
This post is long winded enough. If you want to go out consistently; stop playing in the sandbox and 'practicing' or 'hitting up sets' and actually go out to TRY and get pussy; if you are NOT brand new to this and can at least trip and fall on some pussy - even if you never read about this shit again; and most importantly, if you can answer YES to 4 or more of the questions i posted at the beginning of this shit (The Jimmy crack corn question doesnt count
, then...
Talk to me.
-DabHand 2010
