Making Her Cum through cunnilingus (madbad)

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Date Posted: 2004/08/21 07:12:00 AM EDT
Author: madbad <unknown email address>
Subject: Making her cum through cunnilingus

I've been with quite a few girls who found it difficult to get off from
cunnilingus.  But I'm not a believer in the impossible!  

Here are my findings:

Some of them were just penetration monkeys and a couple of fingers added
to the mix would do the trick every time.  Though sometimes that's not as
satisfying because I wanted her to experience just a straight up clit orgasm--
they're frankly less powerful, but they are different and special for girls who
haven't experienced them before... so...

Other girls had a different problem and  just found direct clit stim to be too
intense-- like it triggered a ticklish-like reflex and they just can't sit
still
through it and constantly squirm away.  David Shade talks about that one
o'clock position on the clit and if you use your tongue very gently and very
patiently, you can have some very good
results-- but you might get a really tired tongue!  It can take a looooong
time.  With another girl with this problem I actually made her cum pretty
consistently by licking her very gently and rhythmically through her panties.  
Actually this was amazing because again it took a long time but she came
incredibly intensely from it.

A really important key to licking pussy that can sometimes make a big
difference is that when you hit the right spot and the right rhythm and she
starts to moan, most guys think, "yeah!  got it!" and they start going faster
or
harder to increase the effect.  Sometimes this is okay-- but often it's exactly
wrong.  When you find what works-- stick with it.  If she moans and goes
tense like it's good, just keep at it at exactly the same speed and intensity
and often she'll pop her weasel.

And, finally, another great way to work it is by fucking her first...

I think most guys think of licking pussy as foreplay.  Make her come that way
first, then stick it in.  Fine by me!  But opposite from the way guys are
built,
virtually all girls come more easily the second time-- and even more easily
the third and fourth.  I find that by the seventh or eight orgasm, it's
ridiculously easy to make them come again... and again!  Furthermore (and
this is a madbad patented, amazing, $$$ move), there is a moment RIGHT
AFTER she comes-- less than a second-- when she is retardedly orgasmic.  
You can push her through the roof, make her scream like she's being
murdered, and have her speak in tongues if you get her during this moment.  
The thing is, most guys don't know about this because all girls RESIST being
fucked during this moment.  I think it has a lot to do with their fear of
losing
control and shrieking and doing freaky things in front of a guy that they
either don't know very well, or are afraid to lose.  It's like, right after she
comes hard and she presses your hips away with her palms or with her thighs
and says, "wait! wait!"-- I'm sure you've experienced it-- right at that
moment if you use force to open her legs and hold her hands and fuck her
fast and hard for a few more pumps, you'll blow all her fuses.

The application of this to your question is:  For the girl who has trouble with
clit only orgasms, penetrate her good, fuck her good, get her to come at least
7 times... then, just as she comes the eight time and she's exactly one nano-
second PAST THE PEAK, pull out, spread her legs hard (she WILL resist), and
lick her clit with steady rhythm and moderate to hard pressure.  She'll
struggle, it's weird, but if you're stronger than her (and you should be), and
persist for about 4 seconds, IME, she'll female ejaculate all over you and have
the orgasm of her life.

It is KEY at this point to give her some snuggling.  Even if you haven't come
yet.  Snuggle her for a minute and let her come back to Earth before fucking
her more.  She'll be VERY fragile and emotional afterwards and it's not
uncommon for her to burst into tears, especially the first time.  Let her know
it's okay, that you don't think she's a freak, that it's beautiful that she
shared
this amazing orgasm with you.  And, btw, you've now got a devoted GF/FB/
LTR or whatever for life.  

fortuna favet audad...
Mad, Bad, and Dangerous to Know

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Date Posted: 2004/08/21 10:36:00 AM EDT
Author: Cardinal <unknown email address>
Subject: Re: Making her cum through cunnilingus

On 8/21/04 6:14:44 AM, demilano wrote:
>Hi!
>
>My new (25yo) GF recently told
>me that nobody could ever make
>her cum by licking her - she
>enjoys it, but she herself
>believes that there are some
>mental barriers in her mind
>that prevent her from just
>letting her go.
>
>Being the bastard that I am,
>I'd now like to know whether
>someone of you had
>successfully mastered a
>similar challenge, and how I
>can break down her barrier.
I've given several girls their first cunnilingus orgasm when they thought they
were unable to come that way. Never read any manual though, so my advice may be
obvious to some...:

1. Don't care if they come or don't come, your job is to please them as much as
possible. It may take 5 minutes, it make take 20. It doesn't matter.

2. I enjoy doing it a lot, i guess it helps...

3. In general: Lick the clitorial area gently and with different/varying
techniques, if/when she moans, remember what you are doing at that moment so
you know what to tease her with. Some women have a hard time telling you what
they like, so you have to listen closely to the body responses.

4. You can use your hands to a LOT, and you should: move a finger from the knee
to between her legs slowly tracing her inner thigh. Caress her nipples. Grab
her hips and press the root of your tongue against her. Grab her ass. Stimulate
her anus (well i never do that actually, but am pretty close). Cup both of her
breasts. Hold her wrists and hands down. Lock her ankles or on ankle
occasionally. Tease the fuck out of her by pushing the fingers slightly inside
her but only a tiny bit and take them out again. Place the fingers above the
pubic area and pull the tummy skin gently upwards revealing more of the vagina.
Make her lick your fingers or suck on them. Pull her hair. I do all of these at
least in one "session".

5. As in all kinds of sex, sounds are important. Lick her loudly (unless she
doesn't like it ) and make her understand that its very good for you too. It
will make her horny and help her to relax.

6. When she is about to come you'll notice heavier breathing, some
flexing/shaking of the muscles, probably holding on to something (your head,
the sheet, her legs..) at this point just *keep on doing what you are doing*
then at least you wont be doing something wrong. When you are more experienced
with *that* woman, you can experiment with heavier stimulation to heighten the
pleasure.

7. I forgot to mention that i usually increase stimulation by starting to
finger fuck her slowly towards the end, going from soft and teasingly to firm
(not hard) and steady.

This is from my own experience, i never tried anything else and it works like a
charm every time.

----
Cardinal

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Date Posted: 2004/08/21 06:55:00 PM EDT
Author: madbad <unknown email address>
Subject: Re: Making her cum through cunnilingus

Cardinal:  Excellent points all.

Especially numbers 4 and 5.  I kind of skipped that there's lots of other stuff
to do with your hands-- and all of the dominant stuff like holding her wrists
or ankles, pulling her hair, etc., is deliriously effective on 90% of girls
(there's
a few, who I assume had some traumatic experience, who will seriously not
like this, but that's fine-- just say okay, and do something else).  

As for 5, I can't emphasize enough how important it is for you to not be
completely silent down there.  That can freak her out and make her wonder
what you're thinking... are you loving it or mad and frustrated that she's not
coming?  Girl's brains frequently get in the way of their pleasure.  Cut off
that
thought by moaning and saying, "oh my god, your pussy is like sugar, baby."  

In the same way that women love being held down and dominated during
sex, they don't want to feel that you are doing this just for them.  Letting
them know that you are loving it, that you are doing it because YOU enjoy it,
keeps the dominant frame and gives her permission to enjoy it herself.  She
can feel that by just lying back and enjoying it, she is doing her duty in
satisfying her man.  

fortuna favet audad...
Mad, Bad, and Dangerous to Know

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I have eaten a lot of pussy. Here is what is up.

You can read to learn some techniques or whatever but it's like the PUA material - if you think of it like step 1 step 2 etc you're going to fuck up, you need to internalize it.

If you can get her to tell you what to do that's the best, just do what she says and she will love the control and you will do the right thing. Of course make sure to tease along the way.

Whomever said always make noises - 100% correct. If you make low noises with your mouth on her lit the vibrations will transfer to her. Good shit. Think "like a hummer, but for chicks."

If she won't talk, body language is key. Dont change up your technique over and over it's distracting. Ever get a BJ where the chick keeps doing different shit like every lick is different than the prev? Kinda annoying huh? You will be thinking, bitch, just do the same thing over and over.  Well it's the same for them!

Eating pussy is always a good oppty to flip it to 69 dude. You will know how you are doing by what she is doing to you. At some point she may stop blowing you entirely, that's a good thing, it means she's so distracted she can't do anything else.

Don't refer to your cock in the 3rd person. Like "suck that cock." It's weirdly impersonal.

Word!