Help! Phone game not working anymore!!

[oldschool662]

I don't know why it is happening now but for some reason after the second txt msg I lose the HB attention. I had no problem last semester and before that, so IDK why it is happening now. I would have called it a fluke if it weren't that it happen in my last three phone closes.

One of the main different things I've been doing is using mason same night/day text which shows the target your number in a C & F way. I have also been texting them with the adjective name to tease them as well as for them to remember who it is incase they forget.

1st target: 2 days later after number closing her I text her the DD way making plans for a date. She texts me back asking how a party or "anything" I went to went (I had made a bridge with her about going to a party and had text her the next day about it but she never responded to it so I consider she didn't want to go). I tease her that "whatever" was great and was one of the best "whatever" I had gone to. I also asked her how her "eccentric" weekend went just to keep the conversation going a bit longer before I went back to the meet up thread. But I never got a respond..

2nd target: I took advice from Big bear this Tuesday when we sort of sarged asu. He told me that he texted girls 'I heard you've been causing serious trouble", I liked this and gave it a try because its very playful. So I tried this out, she texted me back saying that it must be me to which I responded "nope I'm just an angel with a rock n roll attitude" and I also changed the topic to meet up. Again after this text I didn't get a respond.

3rd target: I again try out Big Bear txt but this time after she responds I don't go directly to the meet up. Instead I again I tease her about that and  ask her how her intriguing classes were going today. Again I didn't get a respond.

In all of them I had set up time bridges to number close. I am also especially stumbled on target 1 and 2 since my sarge with them had gone very well. I had there attention well over 15min and had them laughing, qualifying, and their energy levels up higher compare to target 3. So IDK what else could be wrong, if anyone can spot something please let me know because this is a real dozy for me.

[Uncle Jesse]

Just a few thoughts:

1. Banter more on text before going to the meet-up. See if you can't get her to bring it up first.

2. Or, you might just want to call. I too am in love with texting. It suits me perfectly. You can do it leisurely, don't have to put nearly as much time or effort in as on the phone, and it's more fun...but I've had a few girls tell me "I wish you would just call me instead of texting." I can't respond "Well, duh, then I'd have to actually talk to you", but you get the point

3. Maybe don't ask her things like "how are your intriguing classes going"? Unless there is some context to this, just saying the word "intriguing" there might sound like you are being sarcastic to her or condescending, and not in a C&F way. I guess it just sounds a little weird.

I love the "i hear you have been causing a lot of trouble" line. That is $$$. The one girls response was perfect too, I can't figure out why she just stopped after that. Next time you get a great response like that, maybe just call?

SURGIO

[oldschool662]

THanks Surgio! Yeah I'll def keep the banter up next time for that, or just call like you said. Yeah I loved texting because there is no hassle in getting back to the person compared to a phone call, but after this I guess not everyone feels the same way about it.

Yeah I guess that class line does seem weird. I text her on tuesday morning during my classes and since I she went to asu also I though it be good...guess not lol.

[Masonsation]

Also keep in mind that the problem might not be with the phone game.  If they dont return my text or calls, I tend to assume that the problem was somewhere else, like I didnt build enough attraction or comfort.  Its always better to bounce than just to get the number.

[Flash]

Its only 3 examples, it might be a fluke. I really like the "causing trouble" text too. I just used it actually lol. For the longest time, the phone/text games was my stumbling block til I discovered my formula. But even now, I get the no response every now & then.

Example..
A few weeks ago, I kiss closed on this cute girl in the club 15 minutes after I met her. I had her against the wall & it was a pretty raw sexual energy make out session. She was ready to come home with me but her friend wasn't having it. So I figured no problem, its money when I call right? Wrong! I opened with an off the wall text that made no logical sense (my usual 1st text). They almost always reply: "Who is this?" This girl was no different. Then I say: "Damn! How many guys did you give your number to last night? I feel so used". Normally they'll say something like: "Lol Flash right?" Then its on. But this girl didn't respond to my 2nd text. In cases like this, I stay persistent without being desperate. 2 days later, I texted her again with something irrelevant & funny. No response. Then I waited 3 days & texted her again. This time saying: "Whats up 'nickname'. I'm going to 'X club' tonight. You should come by cuz I don't really remember how you look. I was diggin' it last Tuesday but it might've been the alcohol impairing my judgement! ;". This time she responded. We started texting back & forth. Met her for coffee & had sex with her a week later. Persistence pays off with some girls. I'll be persistent and text 3 times without a response, waiting at least 2 days in between texts. But only if the girl is hot enough to be worth the effort. Its worked for me about 50-60% of the time. But I always keep it playful. Any other suggestions?

[chenchen21621]

1. Banter more on text before going to the meet-up. See if you can't get her to bring it up first.

2. Or, you might just want to call. I too am in love with texting. It suits me perfectly. You can do it leisurely, don't have to put nearly as much time or effort in as on the phone, and it's more fun...but I've had a few girls tell me "I wish you would just call me instead of texting." I can't respond "Well, duh, then I'd have to actually talk to you", but you get the point

3. Maybe don't ask her things like "how are your intriguing classes going"? Unless there is some context to this, just saying the word "intriguing" there might sound like you are being sarcastic to her or condescending, and not in a C&F way. I guess it just sounds a little weird.
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