well this is from what I have learned and my opions on shit.
Your avatar should make you feel COMPLETLY relaxed, and should feel like your wearing what reflects you. So if looking like mystery does that then go with that, but if you dress up like mystery and feel like your clothes are not you, you will feel a HUGE difference in BL, attuide, and beliefs. You will begin to feel like: "OH shit I look like a clown!", "This isn't me how the hell will I fit in?"
When you start thinking like that or along those lines you need to find a new style. When your in the right clothes you will notice these feelings: relaxed BL, confindence, congruent attuide, a strong frame and belief system.
now, not just clothes will make you feel these feelings. For example, I have acne, so a lot of the time I feel like shit about my apperance. How to change that? Well, I'm going to a dermatolgiest and getting that all cleaned up.
so if you have "deal breakers", you can ALWAYS get them fixed. so... DO IT!
Before getting a new style, you should start working out/ go to a gym. Get fit and you will be able to find a very good style of clothes that if you weren't fit you could not "pull off". So, get fit and you will be able to wear almost any type of cloth. Doing this will allow you to really get a good look at what style you want, and will also get you into shape, which chicks really like

Also, brushing your teeth and flosing, and mouth wash is some thing else you need to work on. get that all set by doing all 3 before you go out sarging, so when you kiss you won't have to worry if she is a vegaterian or not...
Once all this is done, you can work one conveying your identity, this makes your ask yourself, who are you? this will affect what style of clothes you choose! also, keep this in mind, don't dress like a banker if you want to PU a goth.
Now, you have the physical attributes you always wanted.. well what about inner game?
You guys will be the first to know when I test everything on myself and apply them!
