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« on: August 03, 2006, 01:43:21 PM »
Tonight will be the first of my newbie mission.  Ill be headed to Universal Citywalk in LA to a girls BDay bash Comedy show then club, then the Downtown Standard.  

For the next month i will go out 4 nights a week, 12 sets a night.

I plan on 12 sets tonight.  

my routine stack:

Jealous GF
Who Lies More
2 Part Kiss

Lying Game
Best Friends test
ESP

My focus tonight:  3s rule and stacking
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« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2006, 02:06:50 PM »
Awsome man,

Making the decision that you are going to do it come hell or high water  is the first step.

You will not regret doing the newbie mission.  It will change your life.

The most important thing to keep in mind is to have fun and stay positive.

Good luck

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« Reply #2 on: August 03, 2006, 02:25:49 PM »
AHHH. Not JEalous GF again. I think a rule for the bootcamp should be to use your OWN openers.
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« Reply #3 on: August 03, 2006, 03:09:38 PM »
Quote from: "J-Dog"
hahaha..

Jealous GF is to PUA

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« Reply #4 on: August 04, 2006, 11:33:47 AM »
Sets last night: 4
Total Sets: 4

well first night out was a pretty big flop.  only got in 4 sets, in like an hour.  
the first set was cute, and i followed the 3s rule, started the question and cut myself off to leave with my friends, and they called me back, finished the opener and then the BDay girl showed up.  

Met her friends and was just practicing being social and playful, got reactions which was fun.  laughing load with my friends, and could feel people looking over... i like it.  

next was a set that showed some proximity interest while we were waiting in line at the comedy club.  just looked over, and beckoned with one finger.  she came over, I started and stuttered on JGF, she was acting cold and then her friend pulled her away.  

once got into the club, asked a few hired guns about what they were selling, got a sample and told them how bad it was.  
the Comedians at this show were Hillarious...
Left and went down CityWalk to the Saddle Ranch... LOUD.  

In this venue, i almost completely shut down.  my buddies were just following me and not saying a word.  i backed dis ass up on one girl and moved on.  i was having a hard time getting comfortable to approach.  finally my buddies and i split up,

I approached a 2 set by asking one girl what the bumpersticker on her tits read.  cold, didnt push or stack, I just left.  

Backed it up again on the same girl from earlier when she was alone.  she recognized me and laughed, started talking, was going well, but i wasnt really attracted so i ejected.  

Then my friends found me and wanted to leave.  

Next time:
Go alone
Practice Opener
3s.  Just start moving
Plan to Sarge Only
:  waiting for the comedy to start (later then supposed to) ate into alot of time.
Dont forget how sexy I am.

today im getting off early and gonna hit some coffee shops by the beach.
maybe a mall, maybe a hair salon.  gots to get my style in order.  
Then tonight gonna head to a string of bars thats always busy.  and after that a going away party for some friends.
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« Reply #5 on: August 04, 2006, 12:21:41 PM »
OOh didnt realize i was gonna have fans, ill try and make this next go in the field more interesting for yall.  

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The most important thing to keep in mind is to have fun and stay positive.

I just need to get accustomed to the AAnxiety.  Im mad at myself for hesitating the times i did last night, but im stoked for today and tonight.  I saw a good approach done on a set i saw 5 guys get blown out of and i was hesitating about and im inspired.

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AHHH. Not Jealous GF again. I think a rule for the bootcamp should be to use your OWN openers.

I was using my Long Distance Relationships opener earlier this summer, and i had 1 out of 15 sets not open, but a friend was telling me he thought i disqualified myself too hard with it.  let me know what you think.

MMoney: Hey guys, what do you guys think about long distance relationships?
HBs: Blah Blah... Doomed\Depends\Im in one (these were like the only responses i got.)
MMoney:  Really, no hope? Damn! why do you say that? \ Depends on what? \ Really?  me too!  tell me about your situation.
HBs: Blah Blah...
MMoney:  Well here is my situation... 9 hours difference... together 5 months, going on 4 months apart... may be there indeffinitly...
HBs:  blah blah (usually a final decision)

or

MMoney: Well im gonna meet this girl at another bar in a few minutes and i dont know what i should do.  

or

MMoney:  (for girls in relationship)  well my friend was telling me he has to ya know pretend they are together on the phone.

since ive never known how to Stack material i would just follow the conversation out to stale and eject with a thanks.  
Im doing the Newbie mission to learn how to make others material work for me.  never used canned or a structure so its time to start and get it internalized.
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« Reply #6 on: August 04, 2006, 01:10:41 PM »
I have opened over 200 sets in the last month and I still have to fight through the first 2-4 sets.  I feel almost the same way I did when I started but now I don't care that I feel that way.  I have those real emotions that I can feel very powerfully under controll.  Kind of like driving on the freeway.  When someone starts to veer into you, you don't jerk the wheel.  You stay calm and honk or check you mirrors quickly and respond.  You still feel the "oh shit" but you don't panick.

After the 4th set I can open anything with virtually no fear.  It also helps if you don't allow too much time to pass between sets.  If I wait an hour to do anouther set it almost like starting over for the evening for me.

After 6 sets I am in a rhythm and it becomes very fun and almost pleasurable. :lol:  I am literally addicted to sarging now.  I was in bed last night and luxberry texted me saying he was going sarging.  I couldn't help myself.  I had to get out of bed and go sarging.  (I went to bed early because I had gone to bed at 6am that morning from sarging with skynet)

Don't be picky about what you open.  I would open a disfigured double amputee with not a moments hesitation.  It keeps me warm for when that cute little skirt comes walking around the corner.  Your energy level stays high and you can pull people into your frame.

Hope this helps

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« Reply #7 on: August 05, 2006, 02:07:53 AM »
"Summer in Cali is the Pimpin season, Cause girls hot in the club and thats a good enough reason..."  
50 cent... kinda

Long post, Last 2 sets were numbers, Questions at end.

My god was tonight a fest.  

Sets opened tonight: 12
Total sets: 16
Numbers: 2

Smokin, i totally know what you mean about the first few.  after those i was fearless, and by the end of the night i wasn't using anymore routines, just vibin and shit was going WELL.

Started out alone tonight on the Hermosa Beach pier.  started in a coffee shop getting talkative with the people working.  just ranging different topics trying to get myself psyched up.  

next went down to the bars and looked around a bit, talked to a few guys saw the guys holding up the walls with there drinks in front of there chests oogling the girls they will never talk to... Its go time.  back of the club saw a little 6.5 (cant be picky to start right?)  opened them with my "What do you guys think about long distance relationships?"  quickly realized this was a 6 set, but they opened WIDE up quick.  i ran this set going from the opener into
"Who lies more?" one girl HB6.5tallAzn stole my line and said, "I think girls lie better and get caught less."  so i high fived her and told the group we were gonna play a game.  
Lying game.  she lied on 2 of the questions and so cheated.  all her friends busted up and called her on it and i teased.  at this point i was still looking to warm up and really couldn't think of where to take it so i excused myself.  (in this set, i used the opener saying "my friend" is in a LDR)

opened 2 more sets in here, that i dont really remember... all with the same opener, but i started  saying it was about me instead of a friend "im thinking about meeting a girl at another bar."  

moved outside and sat on a bench next to a girl HB7Moving.  "can i wait for my friends too?"
sure... cold body language.  Not one to take that personally i mentioned something about what she was smoking.  Blah blah, open a little bit more.  
MMoney: “Where you from?”  vibing...
HBMovin: “From all over”  
MMoney:“Military brat?”
HBMovin:  Moved out when i was 16, lived all over...
here i started teasing her and role playing that she was a crazy party girl at age 8, she is loving it and starting to get feisty so i roll with it.  
“What about LDR?”  told me about hers.  Told her about mine and how i don't think its working, feeling like things are distant.  She started kinoing me and we are talking about some deep stuff.  Things were going great, and i really felt like she was opening up... and then as she is telling me about how she feels about something important i totally turn my head to talk to a girl who was leaving the club from my first set.  DOH! HBMovin was like “i'm going inside to see my friends”  when she was just telling me why she wasn't in there.  Ah well.  

1or2 forgettable sets.  

At this point my friend calls and tells me he is at the crosswalk across the street.  I walk over and open a 2 set an 8 and a 7.5 as he is waiting to cross.  LDR? The girls are quick to answer. They just say no, almost cutting off the idea of talking, but i roll through with the whole opener, and all the sudden they are smiling at me and friendly even though they don't have much to say.  I should have stacked more, these girls were cute and i don't think they wanted me to leave.  

My friend shows up we chat about his MTV Parental Control Film interview, and we head back to the bar i just left.  We open up just about everything notable in there and roll out to another bar.  

At the Union Cattle the Bouncer recognizes me from talking other nights, and tells the girl taking money to comp me.  My friend pays.  I didn't even realize this until we got in... tonight i felt VIP.  
This place was a Blur too as i'm walking through i'm smiling, vibing and getting IOIs.  I must have looked how i felt.  Got to a quite part and opened a set.  Then my boy opened a 3 set.

UG, B6.5Short, HB7.5HairRemoval.  I noticed these girls while i was on the phone, proximity alert!  My boy opened using my opener but saying my friend and then brought me in.  quickly opened up and started changing subjects.  “Who lies more?” jumped around, and we were all in comfort.  At one point
HBHairRemoval looks closely at my chest and realizes i'm wearing a pink shirt instead of shaving or laser hair removal, which is her job.  These girls were fun and flirty and i was teasing 7.5 about being a gold digger and other stuff.  They were gonna go get drinks, but stayed to talk, and then we ejected.  I should have closed the number here.  

Few more sets...  

Bummed a Cig from a HB8AznBiz, she was a very professional woman, no materials, just vibing, and then before she was about to leave, i made her play Fuck Mary Kill with me.  She was like NO!, and then she wanted me to play, but she wouldn't pick out the girls, so i picked out three guys.  She said
HBAznBiz:  i cant decide without even knowing them, just by how they look.  
So i made up ridiculous stories for each of them.
MMoney:  He is cheating on his girlfriend, with his best friend... been in an affair for a year and a half, he was stoked when Lance Bass came out... that guy, is happily married with 3 kids, but he has a spanking fetish,... and that guy over there, yea the nerd... coke dealer.  
She was loving it and then didn't want to leave, but she was a bit old for me so i left.... she could have been my suga momma.  

Saw a girl id passed a few times with eye contact, .... proximity alert!  Open with the patented “Hi” opener and start vibing instantly, i can already tell attraction, cause she has cut the fuck in... i mean she was all up in my grill... i had to fight not kissing her cause she was so close and we were vibing in public.  HB8Music:  tall thin blonde bright blue eyes, intelligent, has a great taste in music, used to play classical.  After about 10-15 min chatting, i told her i wanted to get back to my buddy, but ill call her later tonight if we leave, she says cool and we trade numbers... something goes off in my head... SOLIDIFY TIME BRIDGE!  So i mention a beach volleyball tourney i'm gonna be at tomorrow, she says she will be at the beach to, so i stay a couple more minutes talking about the event, and tell her ill call her tomorrow around noon so we can meet up.  I'm stoked. Kiss on cheek and nice hug.

Last set was a chick who opened me and my buddy as we are laughing walking to our car.  She used the “do you know where this grocery store because my car is parked there” opener.  She looked exasperated, so i put my arm around her shoulder and said “it'll be ok honey, ooh don't worry”  in a teasing a little kid tone, she laughed and walked with us.  Told us about the lapdance class she did earlier.  Then we give her a ride to her car, and tell her about the tourney tomorrow, she says she will be there.  I was like cool, we should meet up. And she hesitates.  
HBLapDance:  Yea we should, maybe.
MMoney:  Haha, don't worry about it, its all good. (tone was like, who does this she think she is, i got my bitches waitin in lines and im not gonna let you waste my time, not angry, just seriously thought it was funny)
HBLapDance:  well I'm gonna be with my ex there tomorrow and its kinda awkward, I'm trying to get away from him.
MMoney:  yea that sucks.
HBLapDance:  well he is my FIANCE.... you know how its hard to break up nicely.
We talk a bit more about this, and she then gave me her number to meet up tomorrow.  

Number Close:  get number, get name,
tell the girl you're going to call now so she can put your name in phone, “cause i never answer my phone if i don't know who it is, and I'm sure you're the same way.”  
Gives you a chance to check the number right there, and hopefully they remember you better... we will see tomorrow.  

I'm on top of the world, this night reminded me why there is game, i felt like i could open the world...
Stacking went well, and when i was on vibe, i could just leave the routines pull em up if i felt lag.  


Next time:

New Opener -  2 part kiss
more Fuck Marry Kill, that shit is fun
more Lying Game, only did this once.  
Figure out Wing dynamics... (my buddy said he had a blast, but when i came in set i kept taking the fuck over... good bad?)
try and remember Faces of girls I've opened.
Opened one set 3 times with the same leading line, then sent my buddy into a set with one of the girls before i realized... she FUCKING FLIPPED on him... we laughed the rest of the night about that.  


Questions:

How do you work with a wing who is more reserved?
How do you feel/know when you're at a certain point in the sarge?
i.e.  A1 A2 A3?
Moving girls around?  Isolating (beginning of night i was alone gaming 6, 4,3 sets)?

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« Reply #8 on: August 07, 2006, 02:28:46 PM »
Saturday Day 1b
Sets opened: 3 - ?
Total sets: 19
Total Numbers: 2

Well the numbers were both flakes... kind of inspiring.
Saturday was a huge surf/volleyball/halloween costume tournement with too much faderade.  

opened 3 sets before i started drinking, and after that i cant even remember.  

first sets were fun and easy, and i used situational openers before transitioning into "who lies more" and "2 part kiss"

ooh, saw my girls volleyball team from school standing in line for pizza.  im pretty wasted at this point, they open me and get me some pizza we chat and the girl grabs my phone for me to call them later... i then proceed to lose my phone, pass out and question how i got home.  

Bad day for sarging.
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« Reply #9 on: August 07, 2006, 02:51:36 PM »
Sunday Day 1c
Sets opened: 5
Total sets: 24
Total Numbers: 3

Wine Tour through Napa Valley.

this is great fun,  there are beautiful women at every winery.  At the first one there was a group of girls that gave eye contact from across the room while i was laughing with a friend, next i saw them was right next to me with their backs turned... Prox Alert!

"Do any of you have a delicate pallet?"  
Opened well, but then i felt like kind of a weeny, cause i didnt do anything but talk wine and then asked all the AFC questions.  
Next winery i flirted with the hired gun pouring the wine.  Cocky funny teasing, playfully pretentious "This is a very full Bodied White Wine..."  i quickly found out white wine actually has no body... "I can't read or write"
the pouring girl came out to talk to me before she left work after my female co-worker was making fun of my flirting with her...  loved it.  
I told her i lived in LA and was headed out of town in  a couple weeks and she said "well it looks like we dont have a chance then..."  she kissed my cheek and left.
i felt like i was in the middle of a cheesy movie.

Turnin 21.

Last night a friend of mine was turning 21 and all of our other friends passed out after the wine tour so we got him up, got him out, and got him drunk.  i opened 3 sets here.  
The first set was a girl from Belgum and her friend who barely spoke english target was an 8, friend was a 6.  "its my buddies birthday whats a good shot?"  I spoke a bit of french with her, but didnt know how to continue at all, danced and then she had to find her friend.  

a whole lotta nada otherwise.  
Tonight im gonna go solo again after i work out.  and we will call that day 2
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« Reply #10 on: August 10, 2006, 10:16:05 AM »
Wednesday Day 2
Sets opened: 9
Total sets: 33
Numbers: 1
Total Numbers: 4

Last night, got started alone again, hard at first but easy once i got talking.  started talking to a girl at the bar, conversation was going well, but i had zilch desire so i excused myself to go outside.  
Sat at a table with 4 guys and 1 girl opened with 2 part kiss opener.  during this i realized the girl was alot older then she looked from a far, so i just chilled and vibed, one guy bought us all shots, and then i opened a set next to us that one of the guys kept eyeing.  

3 girls.  2 part kiss opener.  one girl was responsive while the other 2 were about to leave, engaged the responsive one until her friends were curious, and then asked them the question.  they joined us at the table, and started a huge convo about it.  its crazy how well some of these openers work.  so turns out all of these girls are married, and one girl admitted that its not cheating if she kisses others, but if some other girl does it is.  then one girl was talking about how the conversation was getting her hot, so i teased her.  "you're nasty, thinking about kissing other girls and cheating with your lover"... blah blah then i turned around to talk to my "friends"  
next thing i know, she is rubbing a lipstick container on my face... its a fucking vibrator!  then she pretended to use it and made a fake O face.  her friends were laughing so hard.

next set sat down as soon as the other girls left later.  they pretended to be on their cell phones.  so i just interrupt them, and tell them this is gonna be a wierd question,
"but do all girls carry around vibrators in their purses?"  went on to tell the story,  btw this is a new great routine i used all night, and always got good responses and fun sexual convo.  as long as i didnt seem to care or want the sexual topics too much they were comfortable talking.  

MaadMoney:  Sooo, how are things?... (fake awkward)
HBbambi:  Good how are things with you?  
MaadMoney:  Ya know, really good... its been such a long time hasnt it?
HBbambi:  ha, yea it has.
MaadMoney:  its great though, cause its like when we catch up, we havent missed a beat, thats why we are best friends.  
HBbambi:  lights up, laughing yea i totally know what you mean.  

HB: whats your name?
MMon:  MaadMoney  (SAY GUESS!), whats yours?
HB:  HB.
MMon:  sweet, like bambi?
HB:  Yea, (kinda rolls eyes)
MMon:  oh my bad, i actually thought i was original there, but i guess all those lame guys say it all the time.  
HB:  well they just always say something like a porn star.  
MMon:  well i was actually thinking like the cartoon where the deers mom gets shot, oh great, now im gonna cry...

i think i messed this one up by breaking out of isolation to engage the whole group again.  turns out her friend was engaged.  

last interesting set were 2 urban cougers.  my wing was with me
2pt kiss.  vibrator story.  vibing, laughing, roll playing lovers, fun times, pictures.  
one girl went from married, to seperated, to seperated with 2 boyfriends and looking for a third.  she kept trying to hook me up with her girlfriend, but i was playing kinda shy.  she took pictures and email, and then we exchanged numbers.  i kept using false time constraints (gotta go meet our friend).  exchanged massages, and then pretended she is going to rape me the night before i leave and send me on the plane buttnaked, bruised and shaking.  
will call her maybe friday and make plans for saturday or sunday night.  

Fun night.
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« Reply #11 on: August 10, 2006, 02:33:45 PM »
add routine:
Im gonna fuck up my daughters life...
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« Reply #12 on: August 11, 2006, 09:44:57 AM »
Thursday Day 2b
Sets opened: 4
Total sets: 37
Total Numbers: 4

wasnt really feeling it last night, then got drunk.  the whole night i was in a good mood, just didnt really feel like i had the energy to hold sets.  opening went well, and had girls engaged but i didnt really feel like i was running or pushing most sets.  wings were with and they opened more sets then me tonight.

i played the guessing game with a couple girls the whole damn time we talked.  Whats your nationality? guess.  Whats your age? guess.  Whats your name? guess.  this was fun, but i didnt know how to turn it.  

opened a GORGEOUS Persian girl as we were leaving the place.
MMon:  "excuse me what nationality are you?"  (afc i know, btw we were both walking)
HBPer:  "Persian"
MMon:  "Huh, i wouldnt of thought that... maybe part black or something"  
back turn (walked a little ahead)
HBPer:  grabs my arm "wait what nationality are you?"
MMon:  "blah yackidy"  
i dont really remember from here, but we vibed for a bit of the walk and then she ran up to catch her friends.  i think i answered her q to quickly and kinda tried comfort too soon.  

Im starting to become much more aware of my body language in relation to a girl.  im also much less intimidated by guys in sets (2pt kiss opener works great for this.)

i really need to work on going from the opening to attraction.  i dont yet know what this shift feels like.
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« Reply #13 on: August 13, 2006, 02:16:23 AM »
FUCK!!!!!!

tonight, the beautiful asian girl whos name i cant pronounce slipped through my fingers.  
my wing and i bounced her around the club, and then to get after bar food, and were cuddling there, and then.... poof.  in japanese they said some shit about a taxi and they were gone.  
my balls feel like angry smurfs screaming "What THE FUCK HAPPEND?!?!?!?!"

this story to be continued...
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« Reply #14 on: August 13, 2006, 02:17:03 AM »
SHE WAS BITING ON MY FINGER FOR CHRISTS SAKE!!!!

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