36 Approaches in a week, here we go.
At the club Sunday chilling with the guys from the board:
We’re at Suede and I see two very cute girls walk past near the bar. I tell V. that the brunette is mine and after he finishes his cig we walk in. We go all the way to the dancefloor in the back and it turns out Skynet who was in there for another set was talking up our girls. There is a group of four next to the entrance so we go back. I open them up with “Hi, this is V” and go into a fake story about how he just moved here from Russia. She says she’s got a boyfriend and I tell her we are just meeting people. She smiles and we start talking to one of her friends. The convo isn’t too exciting and we talk about weather and V. asks what 115 degrees is in Celsius hah. The convo dies down and the girls head to the dancefloor “See you guys later.”
Second one there is another group of some hotter girls all kind of huddling in a circle in front of the entrance. I go up solo without planning really what to say and touch one on her arm and get the groups attention. I tell her with solid BL that the party is over at our table and she and her friends should come (“need” to come with a charming smile would have worked better). The girl I touched is kind of like “That’s nice of you to invite us” while her body language turns away. I say, “I know it is” and just walk back to the table.
I’ll count this next approach just because I have to do so many this week. Me and V. are walking to the dancefloor for a final run and I tell the hottest girl on the way there, “Hey why aren’t you dancing?” while pointing to the dancefloor. She opens up and says not to worry because she’ll be over there. I kind of point at her at say I’ll meet her there, even though we’re taking off in a few.
We get to the floor and V. wants to learn how to dance better. I see a girl who Phoenix was talking to before and tell her to show me some moves and then to to teach V something. They kind of dance together for a bit and I’m looking on the floor and there are no cute girls. I introduce myself to Phoenix’s girl and her friends and after a song we bounce.
Monday:
Not an approach here but just a fun convo with HBDeep. She’s a girl in my Public Speaking course, and even with my standards I’d give her an 7.5, gorgeous girl with these amazing deep blue eyes and long dark hair, just my type. We’re walking back from class and it goes something like:
Brian: Let me guess, you went out Sunday
HBDeep: No actually I didn’t, I went to sleep early
Brian: (looking in her eyes for a little too long and then turning away) I can tell that you finally got some sleep
HBDeep: (slight smile and eyes slanting at the neg)
Brian: It’s good that you’re doing what you need to do though. What’s up with these people that just neglect their responsibilities. They spend so much time working to be able to study and they just party their nights away forgetting what they are at ASU to do…
HBDeep: (pause) So what did you do last night?
Brian: Went out.
HBDeep: It was Sunday! Where did you go?
Brian: …Went to Suede and a place next to Scottsdale mall that I don’t know if you’ve heard of it, AZ88… It’s a nice place, how old are you by the way?
HBDeep: 19, but I’m working on getting a fake from my cousin.
We talk about how my eye color is different on my fake and she brings up that her cousin has different color eyes than her and asks to see mine. I tell her it would be a shame for her to get contacts and fluff a little more.
We reach the stopwalk and there is a pause. I’m comfortable and look around at what’s going on around me and then turn to her.
Brian: So it turns out your going to be grading my speech!
HBDeep: Yeah Don’t worry I’ll…
Brian: You’ll give me a 5 (max amount of points) I know, but I want you to be a little harsher on the written part of it.
HBDeep: (Expecting me to ask for her to be nice on it) Harsher!?
Brian: Yeah the last girl that graded me, HBBlond gave me smiley faces and told me how good I was. I’m not going to learn like that!
HBDeep: (laughing)
Brian: I can see you grading and just trying to be nice. So predictable.
HBDeep: Ok fine I’ll do it.
Brian: Your probably going to go home and start writing it up right now aren’t you?
HBDeep: Maybe I will (laughing)
Brian: It’s going to be done before I even speak…
Damn I have to close this girl quick.
After some errands I come back to campus. There is a deal in a foodcourt that only the smart lifters know. Eating on campus is expensive especially if you want something with quality meat in it. What you do is go to Salsa Rico and ask for a pita with two sides of steak and chicken and they’ll only charge you for the sides. The sweet lady behind the counter today just charged me for the chicken and I came out paying 2 bucks for a full meal.
So as I’m eating by my myself and watching the TV screen in the MU I see a cute girl eating by herself, how perfect. I make quick eye contact and she knows I’m there. I finish up and walk up so I’m standing next to her ready to sit down. There is “Championship Dominos” playing on the big screen and I introduce myself “Hi, I’m a Championship Domino player.” She kind has a nervous smile and I sit next to her and fluff about what kind of sports are coming out these days. She’s shy and I was going to go for a close but I didn't like the vibe and her body didn’t match the face when she stood up to leave. I say bye and that’s it.
Approaches so far:
Direct: 0
Complement/Situational: 5
Indirect: 0
