AZ PUA Bootcamp - All Assignments

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EDIT:  I will be posting all the assignments in this one thread, so scroll down to see your next assignment.  Good luck.

ASSIGNMENT #1 – Getting Rid of Approach Anxiety

This week we will focus on simply approaching.  You will have to do 36 approaches this week. It does not have to be solid game – you can approach and then immediately eject if you want.  All we are trying to do this week is get comfortable approaching, and destroy all hesitation of approach.  You will be required to do three different types of approaches:  indirect, neutral, and direct.  You will do each of these types of openers 12 times.

For indirect opener: I want you to use an opinion opener.  An opinion opener is where you ask a girl's opinion on something, and have a story behind why you're asking their opinion on it.  Usually, with an opinion opener your opening line is "Hey (guys), I need a -female- opinion on something..." then you immediately into your question.  Or omit the "female" part if it is a set of guys and girls, and just say "Hey guys, I need an opinion on something."

I want you to make up your own question and story though.  No "who lies more?", "do girls think the rockstar david bowie is hot?", Style's two-part kiss opener, or any other community opinion opener.  Come up with a story and some type of opinion you could get from it.  You should ACTUALLY CARE about their opinion too, pick something you're honestly curious about.  I’m sure you can find one story from your life (or your friend's life) that you could base an opinion opener on.  If you want help developing one, post what you got and we’ll give you feedback on it.  

For neutral opener: I want you to use a complement opener or a situational opener.  A complement opener is where you go up to a woman, and complement them on some article of clothing, accessory, make-up, or whatever.  It isn't a complement on her physical beauty though, that is more of a direct opener.  A situational opener is where you comment on something in the environment.  It helps if the situational comment is funny, but it doesn't have to be.

For direct opener: I want you to use this opener that Desperado described on Badboy’s forum.  I would suggest trying out this opener after you have gotten comfortable using the other ones, as you will need to be somewhat “smooth” for this one;

Direct Opener

- turn a girl to face you
- make DEEP EC for a couple of seconds
- a gentle smile...then while looking eye to eye say...
- "I think you look...beautiful...........so beautiful"
(delivered slowly and deliberately using eyebrows and voice to emphasise your words)
- "tell me...what kind of person are you?.......are you friendly?"
- and then starting into deep and wide rapport...

It's slow, deliberate, emotionally intense and very alpha.

99% of chicks are going to experience butterflies in their stomach and a headrush from this kind of opener. They'll smile, giggle...they'll love it.

^---- for the above, if you want to replace the word beautiful with "adorable" or "cute" or whatever, go ahead.

Anyway, if you suck at these openers, WHO CARES?  Just get out there, deliver your opener, and go from there.  Even if you go out, perform these openers 36 times, and get HORRIBLE reactions, you have still succeeded because you did what you set out to do.

Extra Challenge for Advanced Guys:  If you care to take on an extra challenge this week, this is your mission:

Find a venue in which you have never approached before and do some of your 36 approaches there. For example, I have approached in:  clubs, outside of clubs, street, coffee shops, schools, restaurants, mall.  But I have never approached in:  convenience stores (7/11 and such), department stores (like Target), grocery stores, or festivals/carnival etc etc etc.

Another challenge is to find sets that you have never approached before for whatever reason.  Some examples include:  moving sets, seated sets, standing sets, sets with both guys and girls, mom/daughter sets, dad/daughter sets, boyfriend/girlfriend sets, extra large sets with 7+ people in them, old sets with grandma’s in them (though I wouldn't recommend going direct on the grandma sets - unless you're into that sort of thing.)

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ASSIGNMENT #2 – Surface Attraction

This week we will concentrate on building surface or temporary attraction.  For a better explanation of this, I’m going to quote Woodhaven in one of his posts:

Attraction is highly coupled to validation. It is an automatic emotional response which symbolizes chasing. Attraction is felt physically in the body as a force propelling you to that which you are attracted. The very act of chasing something makes you more attracted to it. Actions which resemble chasing also create attraction. Metaphorically speaking, if you move toward someone, you feel attracted to them, and they feel validated. Conversely, If you move away from them, they feel attracted to you, while you feel validated.

Attraction is created by the multitudes of techniques and methods that are
studied here on mASF. Negs, hoops, push-pull, c+f, dominant frames...etc.
Anything that removes a person's validation in a fun and playful way creates attraction toward you. The fun and playfulness is there because that is what sucks them into and assists them in accepting the dominant or imaginary frame you have created with the technique. Remember that all of the attraction caused by verbal techniques is just surface attraction. It is temporary and superficial. People have a tendency to resist attraction. They are aware of the irrational emotional response created by attraction and attempt to shut it off as quickly as possible. Surface attraction created by mASF techniques is easily dissipated when a girl removes herself from the stimulus. Surface attraction is anything which does not give physical pleasure, however it is what leads to the deeper pleasure based attraction.

This week we’ll work on C&F, Busting, Mini Cold-reads, and the Elastic Snapband Effect.  (Thus this assignment we'll be using indirect game and opinion openers - sry to any of the direct guys.)

Here is your assignment:

Go out and use an opinion opener that has a strong RESPONSE BIAS. What I mean by this is that when you run the opener on a group, you get some people saying "hell no" and some people saying "fuck yeah." The archetype of this kind of opener is Who Lies More. Some other good examples are David Bowie, Dental Floss, Jealous GF.

Using this sort of an opener will give you reactions to play off of. Once you've run the opening question, but before you go into the post-opener story, play off of the target's response with some sort of CF push-pull.

You can agree with the target:
-I can hang with you
-You are my new best friend
-we're going to get along, I can tell already

Or you can disagree with the target:
-Oh man, this one is trouble
-We are not going to get along
-I have to watch out for this one (to group) Don't leave me alone with her

Either way, just so long as you are playing off the target's reaction to start up the flirting/sexual communication.  

Then tell your post opener story, and pursue the threads from that. However, before the invisible threads from the story start to die out, stack into any one of a couple things:

-Busting on Mannerisms
For examples:  http://arizonapua.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=1253

-A Mini-cold Read
For examples: http://arizonapua.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=205

-A C&F roleplay
For examples: http://arizonapua.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=1249

-Elastic Snapband Stuff
For examples: http://arizonapua.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=448

Do each of the above, two times (so a total of eight sets for the week).

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ASSIGNMENT #3 - Playful Kino

This week we will be focusing on playful kino.  What is playful kino?  It's touching women in a fun, playful way  (er, sry I couldn't think of a better definition, if you got a better one let me know).  

Examples of playful kino include:  tickling a girl, poking her, playfully hitting her, smacking her on the ass after she makes some C&F remark, thumb wrestling, playing "hot hands",  snapping her bra, wrestling, and more.  Don't HURT the girls though... that's for later in the bedroom!

Your first mission this week will be do to playful kino openers, ala project mayhem by TD.  Here's the post that describes that:

We will go up to all attractive HBs on SIGHT, and rather than chatting them, we will go KINO IMMEDIATELY before uttering so much as one word.

We can probably NOT start touching their arms etc. like STANDARDS KINO. Rather, we will play like school yard kids, and go up to HBs and -lightly- hip check them, bop them on the head with smartie packs in line at the grocery store, pretend to - and lightly - push our shopping carts into them in the isles etc....

We will do this with a VERY playful look, and they must see you giving them EC and a PLAYFUL non-threatening (smile/tilthead/openbodylanguage) look as you physically approach, IMO, if this is to work (IE: don't run up to a chick from behind and bodyslam her OK bros)

I am not suggesting walking up to HBs and touching them in immediately sexual ways, unless anyone is INCLINED which would make for good feedback, albeit taking the chance of getting arrested/charged.  Props to anyone willing to do this, although you are perhaps stupid, unless you are SHARP on reading IOIs, and are getting MAJOR EC/sidelong glances.  If I get these, I WILL lead by example and be attempting immediate sexual KINO this week, and it is very likely that it will happen.  I may even grab the wrists and kiss the next girl who gives me SERIOUS BLATANT IOIs, though I may lose my balls to do this, as it is easier to talk about than actually do in a non-bar sober environment.  This is, however, not recommended for newbies.

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TO RECAP - YOUR MISSION:

-Go out
-Immediately go kino on all HBs (try not to let a previously sarged HB see you doing this to the next HB)
-Play like you did on the schoolyard, and have fun with these girls.
-Record their reactions and your EXACT method of KINO, and POST on this or whatever thread is spawned from this.

In addition to playful kino OPENERS, you will also add playful kino to your regular approaches.  Add them to when you are busting on the girl (or wherever else you see fit.)  The format for this type of thing is usually:

-busting
-playful kino
-busting

For more examples of playful kino, here's the post "C&F Accentuators" by  CraigSD:

After seeing David D's napkin swat, I realized just how many C & F Accentuators (is that a word?) I use. It's little things like this that separate the naturals from the wannabe's.

Here's a few you can do to "accentuate" your game:

(David D's) Swat her with a napkin or a straw.

Pinch her on her side when you are laughing at her.

Grab her hand, smack it, and say, "The next one's gonna be on your ass, so watch it!"

When you say something sarcastic, instead of smiling to break the tension, turn and bump her with your butt.

Poke her in the stomach a la Pillsbury dough boy.

Put her in a headlock and give her a "noogie".

Bite her neck.

Say, "Do you like when guys do this?" and grab her hair right above her neck.

Bump her with your arm and say, "Watch it punk".

At a "high five" moment, make a fist for her to punch instead.

Give her "The Claw" (see the movie "Liar Liar").

So to recap, use a playful kino opener ala project mayhem four times, and use playful kino in your usual approaches at least four times.  This should be a fun assignment, so have some freakin' fun and smack some ass for me

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where is asigment 4 ? gah ..i finished 3 like 2 weeks ago ..

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ASSIGNMENT #4 - Screening

I believe originally this week was supposed to be devoted IVD's and storytelling, but I'm going to move ahead in time a little bit.  We may go back to that stuff later...

Anyway, this week we will move from attraction into qualifying, and we will start with "screening."  I'm pretty lazy this week and I'm not an expert on screening, so I'm gonna let Neo-Rio take over from here...

First, you need to know what kind of things you want in a chick before you do
anything. You need to know this as a base-line position when you screen. Here
are my general traits:-
* Looks after herself well (i.e. looks hot)
* Is intelligent (has the ability to learn new things)
* Has hobbies (so she doesn't annoy me)
* Has a good job (and therefore has money)
* Is generally satisfied with her life (so I don't have to be therapist)
* Has money (so she doesn't try to manipulate me for any)
* Is good in bed (obvious)

Now, here are some good screening question I got from somewhere. I tacked on
some comments to show why I would ask those questions:-

"Are you the adventurous type?"
(Is she open to sex, one night stands?)

"Can you cook?"
(Can she cook for you?)

"Do you like to party?"
(Is she a social person? or will she be a wallflower at a party. Can you hang
out with her?)

"Where do you shop?"
(Is she high maintenance? or does she survive off bargain bins?)

"how much do you like to spend per week?"
(How much money does she get, how rich is she)

"Do you have any hobbies that take up a lot of your time?"
(Does she have something to do when you don't want to fuck her)

"Do you worry about what other people think of you?"
(How insecure is she, how likely she will cling to you when you want to leave
her)

"Do you like going out to restaurants a lot?"
(Does she get out and do things? Or does she stay home and sleep all day)

"What's the longest amount of time you have kept a partner for?"
(Is she into one night stands, or relationships?)

"Do you consider yourself a romantic?"
(Is romance the key to her panties? or just dirty caveman sex)

"Do you like animals?"
(Is she an animal freak who lives with nine cats and avoids human beings?)

"Do you feel that you get enough attention from people?"
(Does she have high self-esteem? Can she find other guys easily?)

"Do you think you work hard enough?"
(What's her job satisfaction like. Poor job satisfaction means that she's more
likely to be a golddigger)

"Have you ever fallen in love? Still open for it?"
(How naieve/jaded she is)

....and of course, many-many-more (tm)

Now, when you hear the answers, they are either going to fall into one of three
categories. One being "Things you want to hear", "Things you don't want to
hear", and "Things which are obvious bullshit".

A case of the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Pay attention that the manner in which you respond should be congruent with
what you are looking for in a woman and more importantly CONVEY THAT YOU ARE
SIZING HER UP BASED OFF OF IT. This is where push&pull really work well IMHO.

Women fall in love quickly like this because:-
* They do the same kinds of shit-tests to men
* It catches them unprepared to answer correctly
* You are prizing yourself
* You are hinting that a relationship is on offer, which is something, even
gold-digging bitches, can't resist having.

First, the stuff you want to hear:-
Say you ask her what job she has, and you find out that she is, say, a chemical
engineer that she does well for herself financially.
Then you would say something like "WOW! A chemical engineer! You must be pretty
intelligent. It's just as well because I find intelligence particularly
attractive in women"

When women pass tests, they need the encouragement that they have passed one.
Not only that, but they will start BEGINNING TO ACT the way you suggested with
you from now on. They have set themselves down a path for their behaviour
around you.... more on this later.

Now, the stuff you DON'T want to hear:-
This is particularly tricky, because you will meet MANY MANY women which are
"damaged" in some way, or are not perfect but you will want to bonk them
anyway.
The trick here is to remember your baseline requirements in a woman and stick
to them... and not put up with problems women have... and NOT GET PUT OFF BY
HER BEAUTY OR WHATEVER.
This is ALSO where C&F behaviour works INCREDIBLY well. C&F works (IMHO) when
you jokingly point out that a woman is failing your screening test.
Note that C&F generally won't work on women with no sense of humour, and who
are too sensitive... (at least in Japan many women are like this.) so in these
cases you will need to be more nurturing to fix the problem.

Lots of women seem to be programmed from birth to attempt to attract ALL men at
ALL COSTS. Screening them out of any kind of connection with you for perfectly
practical and reasonable things will KICK THEM INTO ACTION to fix the
situation, ONLY if you ENCOURAGE them to do so.

If you say something like "No cooking ability? Right! Then it's OVER between
us!" without the C&F and exaggeration, then you will BOMB. A line like this on
a chick with no sense of humour will also bomb, but with a woman with a sense
of humour it will be DAMN FUNNY! Use C&F with care.

When C&F is failing, then you need to have a more nurturing role to fix a
chick's issues and get them up to speed. This way is more romantic. (This
method generally works better in Japan, and on women who are generally too
gutless to face reality with any courage).

First you need to start of by focussing on the good things.
Note that you CAN'T do "You are wonderful blah blah blah, BUT you suck at
this". Comes off less sincere.

Instead of using BUT, use AND. Slowly slip in "...and you would be so much more
perfect for me if you could just do X". Then you have to show her ways she can
go about fixing these problems.
Say she has a crappy job, then you can say "I know you have a lot of potential,
and you could be so perfect for me if you had a better job. Let me show you
how...."
If she is shit testing you, you can say "Look, you're a great girl, and you
would be so much better if you just act yourself and stop lying to me like
this. I'm going to get to know the real you anyway"

In one swift move you are in a position to drop her value, teach her something
(build value in yourself). Tipping control back into your favour.

Remember, you can't fuck her if you fail her on the screen, or if she thinks
she failed. When you find bad stuff, you HAVE to fix it and move on. You need
to take what you have and work on it. All her problems can be solved (they have
to be), and you have to sell that to her. Then she'll be hooked, and you'll be
a great guy.

Now, what happens when she tells you bullshit:-
First, if she is telling bullshit, obvious or not, then understand that she is
throwing her power away already. She is going to have to act congruent with
what she tells you, cause otherwise she has to know that she risks losing you.
This actually gives you power to call her out on all sorts of stuff.
Obvious bullshit is screenable, as per above.

Also understand that cock teasers are great in the bullshit department. They'll
tell you everything you want to hear and lie about it. The fun comes when you
go for the close after 20 minutes of screening a chick....

Moving in for the close after about 20-30 minutes of knowing a chick is good
practice. DON'T waste time on one woman when you've already sized her up, and
IF things are going well between both of you, then you have to take the moment
into your hands.

At this point you can basically start with screening of a sexual nature, and
isolations. You can also blatantly tell her that since you are a good couple
(you forced her to pass your screening) then its natural and no big deal.
Even if she's lied to you at this point, she's going to think that she's
somehow seduced you when it's really YOU doing the seducing.

You won't get to fuck EVERY woman you meet though. Some will be obvious
bullshitters. You will catch many bad things out in screening which should ring
alarm bells.
you will also note that screening is not about getting hooked up on one woman.
Screening is about getting hooked up with a select number of women, and meeting
a hell of a lot more.

So make up some of your own questions for screening (or use his) and go out and use them... good luck.